One Day At A Time

It's been a little while since I have blogged, but this time I can blame it on moving. Yes, I am now a homeowner for the first time in my life, and while that can be exciting, it can also be very stressful. Now, if something breaks, I can't just call the landlord. I either have to fix it myself or shell out lots of cash to have someone else fix it.

So far, so good in the fixing department, although we have only been in the house a week. What I'm dealing with the most right now is getting used to living in a new neighborhood and new house. For many people, that may be no big deal. But I have always had a difficult time dealing with big changes in my life. Maybe I'm just overly emotional, but change can be pretty scary for me.

So how do you deal with change? I think it is similar to dealing with depression. You can try to stay in a routine as much as possible. Do things that make you happy. Don't let negative thoughts consume you. Plan small activities to look forward to, and enjoy the small and simple pleasures. Don't overwork yourself or try to take on too many projects. Get enough exercise and sleep. Eat right. Use relaxation techniques like yoga or meditation.

All those suggestions are well and good, but the truth is, stress is still an everyday struggle, and sometimes all you can do is take it one day at a time. So forgive me if I don't post about the house right away. I'm still getting used to all all its quirks (it's 110 years old). But I'm sure you will get more than an earful about my house in the years to come.